The people I was with and I pick out partners in life based on a lot of things, but are every one of us attracted to them? Are their goals similar to ours? Are every one of us people who can live together long term? Those are all crucial factors that every one of us consider, however once you transport in together and begin your life, other things crop up… There are key factors that everyone don’t consider, and how about that as a couple you are expected to share a room, but my spouse and I are very compatible people, but not sleep wise.
He wants to have a fan blowing on him at night; I want a nice thick comforter. He tends to hoard and have way too much junk in his room. I appreciate my space feeling empty. It makes no sense for us to share a space. Another key factor is the setting on the thermostat, and when you go on a date with someone you never ask what their ideal temperature would be. Would they rather be too sizzling or too cold? AC or heating? You just get-together, transport in and abruptly realize that you both recognize there is a perfect temperature for the Hillsboro OR home. My spouse and I strongly disagree on our ideal temperature. He actually runs sizzling and would appreciate to have the house around 69 degrees all year. When in doubt he feels it is necessary for cooling and no need to run the heater. I would appreciate a 73 degree studying without using the AC hardly at all. The moment it gets freezing, turn on that heater, every one of us live in OR for goodness sake!